Remembrance: Ani Manjikian , Friend and Author

Ani H. Manjikian You will be missed.

On this Sabbath Day, March 3, 2018, I lost a friend to cancer. We had never met in person but we spend many hours together.  I first met Ani Manjikian after reading and reviewing her first book in 2015. My daughter had asked me if I could read and review the book because it was not a genre she enjoyed reading.  I enjoyed her first published book, Spirit of the Lone Horse, and my review was one of the first I published on this blog. I sent her the link to the review and that was the beginning of a friendship that grew over the next two and a half years.

When Ani was ready to enlist others to help with editing her second book, Do You Believe in Legend? I volunteered. I don’t recall if she asked me if I would help or I just volunteered, but, in either case we spent the next few months working together on her second book. This second book was particularly meaningful to Ani.  She wanted Do You Believe in Legend? to be worthy of the title she had chosen. The experience was a growing experience for both of us.  Ani had many more stories to write. Sadly they are lost to us now.  I would have loved to help with the next book in her series. Maybe a family member will pick it up and try to finish it for her in the future.

Working together to edit Ani’s book was not the only thing that we did. Many times Ani would be discouraged and I spent hours chatting with her to encourage her to lift her spirit. We spoke of the things of God often.  Usually I would tell her what scripture tells us about different things pertinent to her life at that moment. I never asked her directly if she knew Jesus as her Lord and Savior. However, our conversations were such that I felt I was talking with someone who knew Jesus and understood my point of view even if she may not always completely agree.  It is my hope that in some way I may have helped her to mature in her faith. It always seemed that when our conversations ended she was encouraged and uplifted. If for some reason I failed her by never asking her directly if she knew Jesus as her Lord and Savior, then Lord forgive me.

Occasionally Ani would have to limit her time writing in order to work to earn a living. She was a web developer by occupation. I never really knew who she contracted with or what she did. I remember times she agonized over having enough work to pay the bills, other times she agonized over being so busy that she didn’t have time for her first love, writing.  In both those instances I would do my best to encourage her. I prayed for her to have work, I prayed for her to have time to write. I prayed for her when she was discouraged and I prayed for her when she felt like an outcast. I prayed for her a lot. I’ve prayed everyday several times a day this past month as she was in a losing battle with cancer.  Now I am praying for her family in this season of mourning.

In January Ani told me she had a doctor appointment she was worried about because she’d already survived cancer diagnosis several times including melanoma. Just after her appointment I asked her the outcome. A couple days later she informed me it was not good, that cancer was in several of her organs and had already spread to her brain and she was hospitalized for intensive treatment. That was the last communication I received from her. Every few days I would message her that I was praying for her. But, the battle was too intense for her to be wasting time on the internet and she never responded. I know that these cancers can advance rapidly so I started looking into any way I could contact someone in her family. I sent messages to two people I thought were probably her mom and either a sister or sister-in-law from her friends list on Facebook because they had the same last name.  It was not until today that I got a response that she was near the end, then a few hours later informed that she had passed.

It is my belief that she passed into the arms of Jesus. If I thought otherwise, I would be devastated that I did not do more to ensure she knew my Lord. But, I believe that she did know Him. My prayers now are for her family who loved her more dearly than anyone except Jesus.  She will be missed and I look forward to meeting her in heaven.

Blessings to all,

Grandma Peachy



About grandmapeachy

I am a retired grandmother and amateur quilter. Generally I do not discuss religion and politics with people other than my family and even then I do more listening than talking. Because I dislike confrontation this blog is a way for me to express opinions that I hold on these and other issues without having to delve into controversial discussions with others who may not agree with me. I am also an avid supporter of indie authors. There are a lot of great books that are not available through traditional publishing and I believe that these stories need to be brought to the attention of the reading public.
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2 Responses to Remembrance: Ani Manjikian , Friend and Author

  1. Shawn says:

    I’m a personal and writer friend of Ani’s here in Washington. (She may have passed on, but I’d like to believe that her influence still lives on in me and that we can remain “close” in spirit.) We live just a few miles apart, and we used to walk our dogs together and talk writing. Actually, we talked about writing, our futures, and other things most days, whether we were able to get “the pack” together or not. I could discuss anything with her, and she pushed me to deal with my struggles as I did her with hers.

    I miss here dearly, as do her many friends from the farm (a local historic farm where many of us go to let our dogs romp off-leash). Ani’s mother is going to place a memorial bench there in here memory, and a number of Ani’s dog-walking friends are going to get together for a tribute dinner at Ani’s favorite local eatery.

    Often, one does not realize just what they have until it is no longer there. I had let my friendship with Ani waver a bit around Christmas and into January, to give myself some “breathing room” to try to press into my own writing. I’d been procrastinating for months, and Ani had been urging me to find a way to write. The last few months, she’d been pressing me with an urgency about it, stressing how important it is for me to write. All the while, she was working harder and harder on “Legend” and was worried that she wouldn’t be able to continue taking the time she needed to work on it. Now I feel guilty for having taken that breathing room.

    Late January, I felt a pressing urge to check her blog, where I found out about her diagnosis. (She knew I knew of her upcoming checkup, but, darn her, she respected me and my need for some space too much to say anything.) I immediately contacted her, and we were able to chat for a few days, until she went in for treatment. On February 4, she briefly texted me about her organs being involved. I asked her how she was fairing, and she replied that she was in good spirits. I texted her a few more times, updates about me and well-wishes from some of the others, but did not hear anymore from her. 😦

    Grandma Peachy, please feel free to email me if you’d like. I do not know that I may be able to answer all of your questions and concerns. But I do know that many of us here who knew Ani feel closer through it all, and our lives feel the richer for having known her. And just because you never met her in person, doesn’t mean you cannot share at least some of that connection, too. 😉


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    • Thank you Shawn for giving me a little more insight into her non-virtual world friends and activities. I remember a number of times that we would be chatting about life or about her books when she’d have to cut the chat off because it was time to walk her dog. Never feel guilty about what you did or did not do, instead keep her memory alive in your spirit and remember fondly the times that you had with her. Blessings GP


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